Confessions of a Toronto sex worker

By Vanessa Brown

* Names have been changed to protect privacy

Meet Ruby Jeffrey. She's in her early 40s; she supports two teenage daughters, one of whom is in university; she'd talk to you for hours if you let her, with a comforting voice that would remind you of your mother's; she holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in psychology. Ruby is a Toronto sex worker.

Sexy Pole - Sexual Anxiety

I wondered how many men are affected by sexual anxiety. Do they spend the same amount of time or any time thinking about their sexual performance? I always wonder if I am a good lover, if my partner is satisfied and if I should be doing more.

Right now I'm so busy I don't feel like I have time for sex, so I know I need to do more, but I don't have time, but am I still a good girlfriend?

So I'd like to know other people's opinions, take my pole!
Victoria Gray

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